So, major life update. On December 12, 2025, I adopted my first cat- a sweet, six-year old tabby named Elune.
Elune was born in a shelter on May 20, 2019 (she’s a Taurus). For the first few years of her life, she lived with a couple in Toronto, but they surrendered her to the shelter when they started having kids. She was five at the time. Elune lived with a foster for ten months before I submitted my adoption application. The application process went very quickly- after a phone call with the shelter, a video meeting with her foster and a signed adoption agreement, she was mine.
Elune got her name from her first owners. I think the name originated from World of Warcraft (there is apparently a moon goddess named Elune in the game). I didn’t want to change it because she’s had the same name her whole life, and I loved the nickname possibilities: Luna, Loonie, Loon and Lunetta, among other things (though, she’s mostly Baby to me).
Elune is a sweetheart who wants nothing but love and attention (on her own terms). From the day that I brought her home, she has slept with me in bed every single night. She’s not a lap cat, but she loves to be around me and have me in her line of sight at all times. She’s taken to nestling beside me on the couch when I’m quietly reading or working on my laptop. She’s very friendly with visitors, if a bit hesitant at first: she never hides and is always happy to socialize. She’s curious, attentive and very smart: I bought her a puzzle feeder and she learned how to solve it right away. She’s also playful- right now, her favourite toys are a wand toy with ribbons and a laser pointer. When I turn on the laser pointer, she makes an adorable chirping sound as she chases the red light around the room. Elune also loves sitting on towels, which has resulted in my mom calling her a “beach baby”. She spends most of her time during the day sleeping on a throw blanket on my couch beside the window basking in the sun. She’s very well-behaved for the most part (though, sometimes when she gets overstimulated she tends to get a little bit “spicy”- we’re working on it).
It’s taken me a while to post about her, in part because the first month post-adoption was very difficult for me. I was struggling with major post-adoption blues. Post-adoption blues (or, puppy blues) is a common feeling among people who adopt new pets. It can result from the sudden imposition of new responsibilities and a loss of freedom after adopting a new pet.
I spent the first week after adopting Elune in tears almost every day. What bothered me wasn’t necessarily the added responsibilities of being a pet owner,, it was the fact that there was another presence in my apartment. I have lived alone for the better part of seven and a half years. Suddenly having another presence in the apartment was something I needed to adjust to. As I mentioned, Elune likes to be around me or have me in her sight at all times- I felt like I had a little shadow following me around all the time (I’d traded in all of my beloved alone time for Elune time). I also felt like she was taking over my space: I was leaving toys and towels all around the condo for her, and constantly playing relaxing cat music out loud.
I was also totally preoccupied with her and worried about being a good cat owner. I spent a lot of time and energy online researching how to take care of her. The preoccupation made it very difficult to keep up with my housework, stick to my routines, or even sleep. According to my Garmin, my “body battery” and “sleep scores” for the second half of December were in the gutter. As a Type A person, a creature of habit and someone with a history of anxiety, I was having a really difficult time coping with all the changes that came along with a new pet. It wasn’t something I ever expected to experience or had been warned about.
And then, unexpectedly, I got sick with the flu. As I mentioned in my last blog post, I spent two weeks “mostly in bed, taking a variety of medications, binge-watching House, M.D. and surviving on Oreos and Fudgesicles”. The illness forced me to slow down and take things easy, and, importantly, gave me the opportunity to really bond with Elune. While I was sick, she was so sweet and attentive and I really appreciated her presence in the apartment. I got to spend more time with her, learn more about her and develop our relationship. I think we’re friends now (at least- she’s my friend. I hope she feels the same way about me).
Now, one month after adopting her, I can confidently say that I feel like I’m over the hump of post-adoption blues. I love her and I’m so happy to have her in my life.
With love,
Laura Kate
Laura Katherine 